YES, YOU ARE PART OF THE BLAME

There is nothing I hate more than a person failing to be accountable for their actions and/or decisions.  I say this because I am tired of women dogging out their child's father.  All day on Facebook, I read constant posts about how their child's father ain't shit, don't this and don't do that, and so on and so forth.  But do you know what I never see posted???  "I CHOOSE this ain't shit dad!”  Not one time have I seen a women take accountability for her decisions.  NOT ONCE!!!

Now let me state for the record that THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR A MAN NOT TAKING CARE OF HIS CHILD(REN).  NONE WHAT SO EVER AND ANY MAN THAT IS A DEAD BEAT DAD IS NOT A MAN, PERIOD!  I DON'T HAVE ANY MEN LIKE THIS IN MY INNER CIRCLE AND I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR ANY MAN THAT DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN.
Now with that being said, let's be honest.  WOMEN, you have to take some blame for you being a single parent because YOU CHOOSE this individual.  YOU made a bad decision in choosing a father for your child. YOU choose to be with this man.  YOU let this man have sex with you without a condom.  YOU created the opportunity for him to become the father of your children.  And now that he is no longer in the picture, you don't want any of the blame???  Really???  Women make all the decisions when it comes to choosing a mate and sex.  Men are the hunters and we chase the cat.  YOU decide if we get to be with you.  YOU decide if we get to have sex.  And since YOU are the only one that will get pregnant, you should SOLELY responsible for deciding when that happens. So if YOU choose a man who isn't worth of being a father, you HAVE to take SOME of the blame for your situation.

Now some women will have you believe that there was no way of knowing that this man would not take care of his child.  I say BULLSHIT!  Either:
1. You didn't get to know him well enough before having sex.
2. You ignored the signs.
3. You thought that you could change him.
4. You were too young, too immature, and too inexperienced to be having sex and to deal with the possible consequences that came along with it. 

Now I am aware that sometime people abruptly changed their colors when the situation changes but I REFUSE to believe that this is the case the majority of the time.  The majority of the time, this man who you say "ain't shit", wasn't shit when you met him, wasn't shit while you were with him and the fact that he ain't shit now should be no surprise to you.  So instead of blaming him for being who he always was and still is, BLAME YOURSELF FOR DEALING WITH THIS AIN'T SHIT MAN!!!  Why??? Because YOU CHOOSE to deal with him, that's why!