Different but equal

2 + 2 = 4

3 + 1 = 4

These two equations represent men and women; equal but different.  We aren’t built the same, we don’t look the same, think the same, feel the same, nor act the same.  Therefore we should not have to follow the same set of rules and standards.  And the sooner both sexes realize this and respect each others difference, the better off we will all be. 

I say this because I’m sick and tired of people complaining about double standards, mostly women.  While I agree that some are unfair, for the most part, the majority of them make a lot of sense.  Men can do and get away with some things that women can’t and vice versa and that’s how things are, always will be, and should be. 

So stop all the crying about what is and isn’t fair cause life ain’t fair.  And most importantly, until you stop taking advantage of all the double standards that go in your favor, SHUT YOUR DAMN MOUTH!!!

THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH, AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH

What happened to the truth?  When did we get so scared of the truth?  It seems like everyday, every hour, we get more and more comfortable with the lies we are being told and sold every day.  To make things worse, we have become more comfortable telling the lies ourselves.  Our government, our elected leaders, pastors, priest, etc., lie to us every day and we readily accept it.

Our government lies all the time.  Today is Columbus Day and we are still celebrating this man and his so-called accomplishments like he actually did something great.  I mean, how do you discover a land WITH PEOPLE ARE READY LIVING AND TRIVING THERE?  Sounds more like an uninvited guess to me.  And we even print this BS in our history books for our children to regurgitate.  In Texas, they want to dismiss slavery in the history books and call it the Triangle Trade.  REALLY???  Pardon my French but GET THE PHUCK OUTTA HERE!!!!!!!!!!  Slavery and the racism that followed it has single handily affected blacks in a manner so negatively that we have yet to recover from it and never will all the while raising whites in American to a position of dominance that will never be relinquished. Yet, they want to gloss over it in history and change name.  Yeah, OK!!!  Plus, we have never been told the REAL truth about 911, Katrina, the economy, Iraq, Saddam, etc.  And in this country, in the age of technology, where the truth is just a click away, we NEVER demand to hear what really happened even though the story we have been given makes very little sense to even the simplest of beings.  Our willful ignorance is disgusting and sad to say the least.

We lie to each other.  We tell fat people its okay to be fat because we don’t want to hurt their feelings.  REALLY???  Never mind the damage they are doing to their health by caring all this extra weight.  And women are the worst with these fat celebrities on TV acting like it’s beautiful to be big just to see them lose all the weight with surgery a few months later.  In Chicago, we have kids killing kids every day.  Gang banging, selling drugs, robbing, and just being an overall criminal.  Yet, when one of these children gets killed, the mother is on TV talking about “her son was a good kid who never hurt nobody.”  The news is saying he was a good student and a star athlete.  REALLY??? 9 times out 10 he was a thug and his mother/father knew it or didn’t care enough to want to know and do something about it.  And he may have been on the basketball team but was far from a star probably rarely attended school anyway.  More times than not in was deep in the streets and got swallowed up by them.  Just because it’s sad doesn’t mean we should lie about it to make others feel better about their self and their short comings.

I could go on forever but I’m sure you get the point.  STOP IT WITH THE LIES.  SO WHAT YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT, IS IT THE TRUTH????  SO WHAT IT’S SCARY, IS IT THE TRUTH???  SO WHAT GOOD PEOPLE GET HURT, IS IT THE TRUTH??? 

They say what you don’t know won’t hurt you.  ANOTHER LIE AND IT’S THE WORST OF THEM ALL!!!

The true test of a man's character is not how he responds to success but how he reacts to adversity.

YES, YOU ARE PART OF THE BLAME

There is nothing I hate more than a person failing to be accountable for their actions and/or decisions.  I say this because I am tired of women dogging out their child's father.  All day on Facebook, I read constant posts about how their child's father ain't shit, don't this and don't do that, and so on and so forth.  But do you know what I never see posted???  "I CHOOSE this ain't shit dad!”  Not one time have I seen a women take accountability for her decisions.  NOT ONCE!!!

Now let me state for the record that THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR A MAN NOT TAKING CARE OF HIS CHILD(REN).  NONE WHAT SO EVER AND ANY MAN THAT IS A DEAD BEAT DAD IS NOT A MAN, PERIOD!  I DON'T HAVE ANY MEN LIKE THIS IN MY INNER CIRCLE AND I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR ANY MAN THAT DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN.
Now with that being said, let's be honest.  WOMEN, you have to take some blame for you being a single parent because YOU CHOOSE this individual.  YOU made a bad decision in choosing a father for your child. YOU choose to be with this man.  YOU let this man have sex with you without a condom.  YOU created the opportunity for him to become the father of your children.  And now that he is no longer in the picture, you don't want any of the blame???  Really???  Women make all the decisions when it comes to choosing a mate and sex.  Men are the hunters and we chase the cat.  YOU decide if we get to be with you.  YOU decide if we get to have sex.  And since YOU are the only one that will get pregnant, you should SOLELY responsible for deciding when that happens. So if YOU choose a man who isn't worth of being a father, you HAVE to take SOME of the blame for your situation.

Now some women will have you believe that there was no way of knowing that this man would not take care of his child.  I say BULLSHIT!  Either:
1. You didn't get to know him well enough before having sex.
2. You ignored the signs.
3. You thought that you could change him.
4. You were too young, too immature, and too inexperienced to be having sex and to deal with the possible consequences that came along with it. 

Now I am aware that sometime people abruptly changed their colors when the situation changes but I REFUSE to believe that this is the case the majority of the time.  The majority of the time, this man who you say "ain't shit", wasn't shit when you met him, wasn't shit while you were with him and the fact that he ain't shit now should be no surprise to you.  So instead of blaming him for being who he always was and still is, BLAME YOURSELF FOR DEALING WITH THIS AIN'T SHIT MAN!!!  Why??? Because YOU CHOOSE to deal with him, that's why!