Father's Day wishes for mothers??? Really???

Father's Day is for men, PERIOD. I truly honor and respect what single mothers go through to raise a child(ren) alone (I was raised by one), but the fact is that she can NEVER replace the father. She can't PLAY HIS ROLE OR BE A SUITABLE SUBSTITUTE FOR HIM. She can only be the best mother she can be and that is all. If you truly want to honor single mothers, then do something extra special for them on Mother's Day or throughout the year. But don't take Father's Day and minimize the respect and honor that good father's deserve by even insinuating that a mother can be a father. It's disrespectful and quite ignorant. Only women have the nerve to think that they could play a man's role. I know some single fathers and not one of them is foolish enough to think that they could play the mother's role. NOT ONE. It's arrogance and a sever need for attention at it's finest. Really, how can you be a father when you are not a man and have no idea what is is like to be one??? I mean really! HOW CAN YOU BE SO TALENTED AND SKILLFUL ENOUGH TO PLAY THE ROLE OF THE FATHER WHEN YOU CAN'T EVEN RECOGNIZE ONE WHICH MEANS YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW WHAT A GOOD FATHER IS??? And if your children have a good father, then HOW LOW IS YOURSELF ESTEEM THAT HAVE TO HONOR YOURSELF INSTEAD OF HIM ON THIS DAY??? Know this, the man you chose to father your children is a direct reflection OF YOUR DECISION MAKING ABILITY OR LACK THEREOF. Let us fathers, US MEN, have our day. Give us and us alone the respect we deserve as we do women on Mother's Day. Better yet, find a good man to play the role of FATHER to your children so you can actually learn what BEING A FATHER IS ALL ABOUT. And then, maybe then you will honor the people that this holiday was created for.



Secondly, stop qualifying Father's Day for "real" fathers. You don't do that nonsense on Mother's Day. Show the same respect for fathers that you would want for yourself. Honor us THE SAME WAY WE HONOR YOU. Is that really too much to ask???

Father's Day wishes for mothers??? Really???

Father's Day is for men, PERIOD. I truly honor and respect what single mothers go through to raise a child(ren) alone (I was raised by one), but the fact is that she can NEVER replace the father. She can't PLAY HIS ROLE OR BE A SUITABLE SUBSTITUTE FOR HIM. She can only be the best mother she can be and that is all. If you truly want to honor single mothers, then do something extra special for them on Mother's Day or throughout the year. But don't take Father's Day and minimize the respect and honor that good father's deserve by even insinuating that a mother can be a father. It's disrespectful and quite ignorant. Only women have the nerve to think that they could play a man's role. I know some single fathers and not one of them is foolish enough to think that they could play the mother's role. NOT ONE. It's arrogance and and a sever need for attention at it's finest. Really, how can you be a father when you are not a man and have no idea what is is like to be one??? I mean really, HOW CAN YOU BE SO TALENTED AND SKILLFUL ENOUGH TO PLAY THE ROLE OF THE FATHER WHEN YOU CAN'T EVEN RECOGNIZE ONE WHICH MEANS YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW WHAT A GOOD FATHER IS??? And if your children have a good father, then HOW LOW IS YOURSELF ESTEEM THAT HAVE TO HONOR YOURSELF INSTEAD OF HIM ON THIS DAY??? Know this, the man you chose to father your children is a direct reflection OF YOUR DECISION MAKING ABILITY OR LACK THEREOF. Let us fathers, us men, have our day. Give us and us alone the respect we deserve as we do women on Mother's Day. Better yet, find a good man to play the role of FATHER to your children so you can actually learn what BEING A FATHER IS ALL ABOUT. And then, maybe then you will honor the people the this holiday was created for.

Secondly, stop qualifying Father's Day for "real" fathers. You don't do that nonsense on Mother's Day. Show the same respect for fathers that you would want for yourself. Honor us THE SAME WAY WE HONOR YOU. Is that really too much to ask???

2 FOR THE ROAD

These last two years have been pretty rough for your boy but finally, brighter days are ahead. Through all the ups and mostly downs that I have recently experienced, two philosophies help me survive:

1.REMAIN POSITIVE – No matter the trials and tribulations that you experience. No matter how often bad luck seems to find you. No matter how rough things get and how bleak the future seems. REMAIN POSITIVE. See, being negative accomplishes nothing. To spend your time dwelling on something that has already happened and/or a situation that you can’t change is pointless. It is wasted energy. Ask yourself, “what has being negative done for me? What has it help me accomplish?” Instead, spend your time coming up with ways to make the best out of what you have. Acknowledge the reality of your situation and try your best to take lemons and make lemonade. By always remaining positive, you will find that you are consistently in better moods and are much happier as a person despite your situation. Most importantly, thinking positive usually manifests itself into thinking about solutions and how you can take advantage of what's in front you.

2.BE ACCOUNTABLE – Always and I mean always take FULL RESPONSIBLITY for your situation. It doesn’t matter who else is to blame. If you think hard enough and long enough, you will always find that you could have done something differently to avoid your current predicament. As a matter of fact, don’t even worry about who else is at fault. Why? Because it doesn’t matter. It’s your situation, not theirs. Blaming someone else just allows you to feel sorry for yourself. It allows you to turn yourself into a victim. Then you start to think that there was nothing you could have done differently. And this way of thinking has zero benefit to you. The problem with that kind of thinking is that you have unconsciously given up control of your life. No one should have the power to decide how YOUR life is going to play out but you. Your response to a situation is FAR MORE IMPORTANT than the situation itself. No one can make you do anything. No one determines how you feel but you. TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, YOUR ACTIONS, AND YOUR EMOTIONS. Be the soul controller of your life and you’ll find that you will experience more positives than negatives.

Emotions and logic are like oil and water, they just don't mix.

IF THEY ONLY KNEW

They could rule the world if the wanted too. They have all the power and don’t even know it. Who is “they” you ask??? WOMEN!!!

That’s right, women. They have want every man wants and whatever they say we have to do to get it, WE WILL DO. We base the way we dress off what women like. We purchase nice cars to impress them. Even what we say on Facebook is designed to make our selves look better to the women on our page. They dictate our moves without saying a single word. Shit, we do things to impress women we haven’t even met yet. We’re doing things hoping to get noticed. Think about that for a second. WOMEN WE HAVE NEVER EVEN MET HAVE SIGNIFICANT INFLUENCE OVER MANY OF OUR EVERYDAY ACTIONS. WOW!!!! How do they do this you ask?? Simple, they have a monopoly on the pussy. That’s right, pussy!!! Every man wants pussy, every woman has one, and every man wants pussy from damn near every woman!!! Lol

If every single woman in the world today decided that men would no longer receive sex from them without marrying them first, EVERY HETEROSEXUAL MAN IN THE WORLD WOULD BE MARRIED THE DAY OF HIS 18TH BIRTHDAY!!!

But this will never happen because the one’s with ALL THE POWER HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA HOW TO USE IT AND I AIN’T DUMB ENOUGH TO TELL YOU EITHER!!! LMAO!!!!!!

Vote Whether You Like It or Not

I’ll be honest; I don’t want to vote.  Politicians are full of shit and rarely do any good for anyone but themselves, their friends and family.  Republicans and Democrats act as if they can’t stand each and don’t agree on anything but behind closed doors they are the best of friends.  They have dinner together, drink together, and most importantly, THEY MAKE MONEY TOGETHER. 

See the whole 2 party system is a joke.  There is really only one party, and that party is called MONEY.  Money rules the world, corporations run the government, and they tell politicians how to vote.  They create the topics and determine the outcomes.  The whole system is corrupt from top to bottom and they are all puppets including the president.

With that being said, I’m still going to vote.  I’m going to vote because it makes no sense to complain if you have not tried to make a difference.  And more importantly, too many of my ancestors were beaten and killed for the right to vote and to be heard and I will not let their sacrifices be in vain.

Different but equal

2 + 2 = 4

3 + 1 = 4

These two equations represent men and women; equal but different.  We aren’t built the same, we don’t look the same, think the same, feel the same, nor act the same.  Therefore we should not have to follow the same set of rules and standards.  And the sooner both sexes realize this and respect each others difference, the better off we will all be. 

I say this because I’m sick and tired of people complaining about double standards, mostly women.  While I agree that some are unfair, for the most part, the majority of them make a lot of sense.  Men can do and get away with some things that women can’t and vice versa and that’s how things are, always will be, and should be. 

So stop all the crying about what is and isn’t fair cause life ain’t fair.  And most importantly, until you stop taking advantage of all the double standards that go in your favor, SHUT YOUR DAMN MOUTH!!!